Integrative & Lifestyle Medicine — Wholeness in Midlife Program
Midlife doesn't
have to be a crisis.
It can be an awakening.
An 8-week, physician-led group for people moving through menopause. Grounded in science. Held in community for People of Color.
People of color deserve space that is ours as we navigate the menopause transition. This is it.
Welcome to the Wholeness in Midlife Program — Neelam Pathikonda, DO, MPH
brain fog
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weight gain with no explanation
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3am wide awake
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"your labs look normal"
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months-long waitlists
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carrying everyone else
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night sweats
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you are not imagining it
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brain fog · weight gain with no explanation · 3am wide awake · "your labs look normal" · months-long waitlists · carrying everyone else · night sweats · you are not imagining it ·
The mirror
You know something is off. You just can't get anyone to take it seriously.
You wake up exhausted even after you've slept. You are gaining weight without explanation. There's a fog over your brain that wasn't there before. You don't feel like yourself and don't know why.
You brought it all up at your last appointment and were told your labs look normal.
You are not imagining it. You are moving through one of the most significant biological transitions of your life, and the system around you was not built to support it. This is particularly true for women of color who are often ignored in traditional healthcare settings.
- Brain fog & memory loss every day
- Insomnia & fatigue rinse, repeat
- Unexplained weight gain despite changing nothing
- Dismissed by your doctor "it's normal"
- Months-long waitlists still waiting
- No plan, no answers until now
Why healthcare falls short
A years-long transition can't be handled in a fifteen-minute visit.
of menopause training is what most physicians received across all of medical school. Most of it is about hot flashes.
Primary care was designed for acute illness and chronic disease management. But here's the thing — menopause is not an illness and it's not a disease. It is a multi-year shift in the hormonal, metabolic, and emotional landscape of your body, and it deserves more than a referral and a pamphlet.
In cultures that revere women as they age — for their wisdom, leadership, and skill — women report fewer menopausal symptoms.
Which means menopause is as much a cultural and political experience as a biological one. And it means we have the ability to rewrite the script.